Saving on a wedding and a bachelor(ette) party with your points

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To the point Outfits, gifts, bachelor(ette) party, destination wedding: here’s how to save on a wedding and earn rewards points on every expense.

Weddings are expensive. Between the attire, gifts, bachelor or bachelorette parties, and sometimes a destination trip, the bill adds up quickly. In Canada, a wedding costs an average of $30,000 to $40,000, or about $125 to $175 per guest. Good news: every dollar spent can earn you rewards points or cash back. Simply put, you can turn these expenses into future trips.

Here’s how to save on a wedding, plan a bachelor(ette) party, and shop in a way that helps you earn the maximum number of points. The method is based on three pillars: points-earning online portals, gift cards, and the right credit card for each expense.

Our top pick for a wedding remains the American Express Cobalt Card: 5 Membership Rewards points per dollar on dining and groceries, 2 points per dollar on travel and transit, and transfers to Aeroplan and Marriott Bonvoy to fund your trip.

Three opportunities to earn points

A wedding is planned over several months. Each stage generates expenses, so each stage can generate points. Here are the three key moments to optimize.

  • Shopping: outfits, rings, décor, gifts and equipment, online or in-store.
  • The bachelor(ette) party: the evening or weekend with close friends, often with restaurants, bars and accommodation.
  • Travel: the destination wedding, the honeymoon, or guests’ travel.

Shopping for outfits and gifts

Wedding planning mostly involves shopping: dress, suit, shoes, décor, gift registry and small accessories for the bachelor(ette) party. Instead of paying full price, route these purchases through a points-earning or cash back online portal. This simple habit adds an extra layer of rewards on top of what your credit card already earns.

Aeroplan eStore

The Aeroplan eStore lets you earn bonus Aeroplan points when you shop with partner retailers. You first go through the Aeroplan portal, then you’re redirected to the merchant’s site. That way, you earn points in addition to the ones from your credit card on the same purchase.

Rakuten and online cash back

Rakuten works on the same principle, but with cash back paid directly. You first click through to the merchant from Rakuten, then shop as usual. That way, part of your purchase comes back to you as cash, often between 1% and 10% depending on the retailer. For a wedding dress or a décor order worth a few hundred dollars, the cash back quickly becomes worthwhile.

Gift cards to multiply your points

Some credit cards offer multipliers on specific categories, such as groceries. However, many grocery stores sell gift cards for major brands (Amazon, home décor stores, restaurants). By buying these gift cards at the grocery store with the right credit card, you earn the grocery-category multiplier on purchases that normally wouldn’t qualify.

In practical terms, several cards earn 5 times the points at the grocery store: the American Express Cobalt® Card, the National Bank World Elite Mastercard®, and the BMO eclipse Visa Infinite* Card. The Scotiabank Gold American Express® Card does even better, with up to 6 times the points at IGA, Voilà by IGA, Sobeys, Safeway, and Foodland.

Two concrete examples: SAQ and Amazon

Here is the concrete difference for an alcohol purchase at the SAQ, where the base rate remains 1 point per dollar:

Method of paymentPoints rate$60 bottle of wine
Card paid directly at the SAQ1x60 points
SAQ gift card purchased at the grocery store (Cobalt, NBC World Elite, or BMO eclipse)5x300 points
SAQ gift card purchased at the grocery store with the Scotiabank Gold American Express® Card (IGA, Voilà, Sobeys)Up to 6xUp to 360 points

The same principle applies to Amazon. Instead of paying directly on the site, buy an Amazon gift card at the grocery store:

Method of paymentPoints rate$200 Amazon order
Card paid directly on Amazon.ca1x200 points
Amazon gift card purchased at the grocery store (Cobalt, NBC World Elite, or BMO eclipse)5x1,000 points
Amazon gift card purchased at the grocery store with the Scotiabank Gold American Express® Card (IGA, Voilà, Sobeys)Up to 6xUp to 1,200 points

For the complete list of eligible retailers and details on the technique, consult our guide dedicated to gift cards at 5 times the points.

For gifts and small gear, Amazon remains convenient. However, before redeeming your points for Amazon purchases, check the real value of the redemption. Very often, your points are worth more for travel.

The bachelor(ette) party

A bachelor or bachelorette party often combines restaurants, bars, activities and sometimes a weekend away. These expenses fall into categories that earn a lot of points. For example, the American Express Cobalt Card earns 5 Membership Rewards points per dollar on restaurants, food delivery and groceries in Canada.

If you’re organizing the night for the group, put the payments on your card, then get reimbursed by the participants. That way, you earn points on all expenses while keeping a clear record of amounts. For a weekend, a rental accommodation or a hotel booked with points reduces the bill even further.

The destination wedding

Destination wedding paid for with points

A destination wedding or honeymoon is the biggest expense, but also the best use of your points. The points earned during the planning then go toward flights and the hotel. That’s how the loop closes: your shopping purchases fund your trip.

  • Flights: book with Aeroplan points, Avios or Flying Blue for the whole wedding party if possible.
  • Hotel: aim for a chain like Marriott Bonvoy for free nights or an upgrade.
  • Travel insurance: pay for the trip with a card that includes insurance to cover the unexpected.

Getting married at a Marriott Bonvoy hotel

Holding your wedding at a Marriott Bonvoy family hotel turns the reception itself into a source of points. With the Marriott Bonvoy Events program, you earn 2 points per US dollar on the eligible event, up to 60,000 points per wedding. Titanium or Ambassador status members can even reach 105,000 points.

  • Points on the reception: the venue, meals, drinks, and room blocks count toward the calculation.
  • Elite Night Credits: one Elite Night for every 20 rooms booked, up to 20 per event.
  • Deposit paid with a card: pay the deposit with the Marriott Bonvoy American Express Card to stack points on top.

Marriott also provides certified planners and ceremony packages. To choose the property, first compare the different Marriott hotel brands and all-inclusive options.

For the honeymoon, certain destinations come up year after year. Most can be booked advantageously with points, especially for the hotel.

  • Maldives: overwater villas above the lagoon, a classic to book with points.
  • French Polynesia (Bora Bora): turquoise lagoons and overwater bungalows.
  • Riviera Maya (Mexico): adult-only all-inclusives, close and affordable from Canada.
  • Greece (Santorini): sunsets over the Aegean Sea and boutique hotels.
  • Bali (Indonesia): beaches, rice paddies, and spas for an exotic getaway.

To go further, check out our guide to overwater villas and our romantic destinations. The media outlet La Sœur de la Mariée also publishes a ranking of honeymoon destinations.

Which credit card to use

The right strategy is to pair a transferable-points card for nights out and travel, and a cash back card for everyday shopping. Here are four cards that cover wedding expenses well, depending on the category.

  • Restaurants and groceries: the American Express Cobalt Card for its 5 points per dollar.
  • Travel and foreign currency: the Scotiabank Passport™ Visa Infinite +* Card, with no foreign transaction fees.
  • Everyday shopping: the CIBC Dividend® Visa Infinite* Card for its cash back.
  • Groceries and gift cards: the National Bank World Elite Mastercard for its 5 points per dollar on groceries.

To go further, compare all options on our best credit cards page.

Key takeaways

Saving on a wedding doesn’t mean cutting back on the celebration. It’s about making every expense work for you. By routing your shopping through the Aeroplan eStore or Rakuten, paying for nights out with the right card, and booking the trip with your points, you can get significant value back on a budget you were going to spend anyway.

The American Express Cobalt Card remains our starting point for this type of project, thanks to its high points on restaurants and groceries and its transfers to Aeroplan and Marriott Bonvoy.

My advice: take this card out at the very beginning of the preparations, not just on the day of the party. Since it covers both dining and groceries, it accumulates on almost all your wedding expenses spread over several months, which makes a real difference to the final total.

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Audrey Voisine
Audrey Voisine
Audrey, co-founder of Milesopedia, is a dedicated entrepreneur, avid traveler, and mother of two children. She shares valuable tips and recommendations for families and frequent travellers alike, helping everyone get the most from points and rewards programs. As Executive Vice President of Marketing and Communications, she is committed to guiding Milesopedia readers toward more accessible, practical, and memorable journeys.
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